Conceited men dating
You're on your first date with the online hottie you've been texting for weeks.In person, he is even more handsome and sexy than in his pictures.You love everything about him: the smell of his cologne, how he dresses, and how his eyes sparkle when he smiles at you.
The good news in all this is that you don't have to wonder if he is honest—his sense of entitlement tells you that he is not. He spends so much time cultivating a certain image, that there is nothing under it to be discovered. Cues into the modesty of your guy are the easygoing way he handles criticism, how considerate he is over everyday matters, and his total lack of racism or sexism. He'd never feel threatened because he simply accepts how things are."But I can't help being attracted to confident men! He has to keep you off-guard so you won't see that he is a hollow shell of a person. He has no interest in establishing his superiority, and loathes the thought of exploiting anyone.Note that "modest versus arrogant" and "confident versus underconfident" are separate dimensions. If he sees a spider in the house, he'll catch and release it outside. His utter rejection of any sexual double standard for men versus women melts away shame.Sexual exploration and real intimacy are possible with this deeply confident, empathic man. He wants very badly to know you, too, but refrains from asking intimate questions out of respect for your privacy.